<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[byMiha’s Newsletter]]></title><description><![CDATA[Parenting Reparenting Life Quantum Human Design DMCoaching]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png</url><title>byMiha’s Newsletter</title><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2026 21:35:52 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Mihaela Carmen Matei ]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[#124 Summer]]></title><description><![CDATA[In my heart]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/124-summer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/124-summer</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2026 19:38:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>My LOVE,</strong></p><p>Happy 4th of July! </p><p>Having fun?</p><p>It feels like summer fireworks are needed to mark the beginning of this season. The days are longer, the sun stronger. The dark nights of winter are melted by the summer fun in the sun. Less meditation-germination and more action is taking place. A lot is going on in the summer&#8230; when I am actually a puddle.</p><p>July is here with a kind of medicine that melts us into walking waters. We must learn to let go and start to flow. It gives us an invitation to simply <em>be</em>. To drop the endless doing, the restless performing, and to enter <strong>Being Mode</strong>.</p><p>But what does it actually mean to just be? To just enjoy life?</p><p>Looking back, my life has felt like a constant vacation. Traveling, immersing myself in cultural variety, encountering different energetic expressions, and observing life. Just observing. I noticed something everywhere I went that echoes back at me everywhere I am: <strong>belief systems create life.</strong> We design the prison or the palace with the thoughts we choose to think. We inherit a script, and we spend our lives acting it out until we consciously choose to step out of a timeline and create another. I am sure most of you have done it. You just did not think of it too much. Timeline leaps happen all the time.</p><p>I traveled geographically, but my senses caught energies that transformed me. My inner landscaping changed and I realize now that I have a world within me.</p><p>Yet, my love for parenting stayed. It is the love of my life&#8212;not because I am a mother, but because I am mothering by default. When I say mothering, it is really parenting, the silent blueprint running our adult lives.</p><h3>The &#8220;Good Child&#8221; and the Invisible Jail</h3><p>For as long as I can remember, I desperately wanted to be a &#8220;good child.&#8221; The fear of God planted in me and the timeless words &#8220;be a good girl&#8221; were the chains that kept me a prisoner in an invisible jail. </p><p>I had busy parents who were doing their absolute best, but they couldn&#8217;t always be present with me in the way my young, sensitive emotional body needed. With busy parents, I was left in silence to find my own ways in life. My little girl&#8217;s mind created safety thinking safe thoughts. </p><p>That silence told me that my role was to be easy, to be quiet, to make others happy so I could feel safe. It was easy at that time, but it is the hardest thing in the world to make everybody happy. And sort of impossible. </p><p>I didn&#8217;t realize that the immense freedom my parents gave me by being busy was actually self-parenting. They handed me the keys to my own sovereignty, but my inner child was scared, sitting by the open door, waiting for external permission to live life. </p><p>It is so true that freedom must be taken, not given. </p><p>It is no satisfaction when it is simply handed to you, especially when it is too soon and without the skills to ride the waves of strong desires. </p><p>Was freedom given to you, or did you have to grab it and walk away from the chains of toxic family drama? </p><p>Just curious&#8230; </p><p>Thinking about my childhood, I can see now how I decided that my anger was too loud, my sadness too heavy, and my joy too disruptive for others. I carried those beliefs for the longest time, and I can clearly see how my family still puts that heavy bag (to make them happy) on my back without my consent. </p><p>Luckily, I am aware of it now and I can drop it. What a blessing to wake up to the possibility that I have a choice. </p><p>Ppheeww!!! </p><p>I have learnt the hard way that my happiness is my own responsibility. I love contributing to the happiness of the people I love, but I know I am not responsible for it. Not an easy change, since I sometimes feel it was a transgenerational trauma coming from both sides of my parents. </p><p>I observe parents being hyper-vigilant, exhausted, and desperately trying to control the family dynamics. They do it not because that is the role of a parent, but because the child inside them is still trying to manage the emotional climate of the home. </p><p>I can see how we try to filter our children&#8217;s behavior through our own survival mechanisms. </p><p>Think of this for a minute&#8230; </p><p>When a child throws a tantrum, is it their emotion that triggers you, or is it the echo of the time you were punished for having a voice? </p><p>Take your time. You don&#8217;t have to answer. </p><p>Allow awareness to flood your brain, your belief system, with new perspectives so we can all swim out of the dark, muddy waters and into the sunny meadows of evolution. </p><p>This is how conditioning repeats itself, generation after generation, completely masked as &#8220;family traits.&#8221; Parenting is a transgenerational trauma we all must do our best to heal and release, so our children learn that happiness is not given by outside sources, but created within.</p><h3>The Quantum Leap into My Own Skin</h3><p>This deep, heavy conditioning is exactly what led me to Human Design. I know something was off and not aligned with my true north. Learning about human design wasn&#8217;t just a casual interest for me; it was the exact field that made me recognize what was not expressing itself in a satisfying way.</p><p>I have extensively traveled and lived amazing experiences. They were given to me without my conscious request. I enjoyed everything and I proved to myself that life outside a cookie-cutter mold is possible. God did not punish me for leaving the perfect, safe system; God rewarded me\y courage with beauty and amazing gifts in life. I enjoyed everything, avoiding regular, mundane models.</p><p>For many years, despite my travels and my worldly experiences, I did not know what I did not know. I realized it when everything collapsed around me,  and I realized my world was not as safe as I thought. All the external blessings were not enough. I started to look for answers and a question hit me hard. Of course Robert asked me it, who else if not a genius mind to bring awareness in my inner world?</p><p>Robert: <em>&#8220;Miha, how do you say &#8216;I feel good about myself&#8217; in Romanian?&#8221;</em> </p><p>What?! </p><p>I could not find the words to make my body feel that. I cried a river realizing I have never said that in my own mother language. To feel good about myself? I was never allowed, and actually punished if I did. Communists never allow humans to feel good&#8230; to feel good about themselves? It sent one straight to hell back then. Even today, people judge if I feel too good without a reason&#8230; what is with us?</p><p>Short story&#8230; through tears of a good cry, I told Robert that to say &#8220;I feel good about myself&#8221; in Romanian, we say: <em>I feel good in my own skin</em> (M&#259; simt bine &#238;n pielea mea). It was painful to realize I knew the language, I am a master of Romanian grammar and semantics, but I had never used those words as an &#8220;I statement&#8221; for my body to enjoy. It is sad&#8230; it was super sad&#8230; but I am so happy I woke up to it and even happier to share it with you.</p><p>I am sure it helps at least one of you to pull off a thorn collected from the roses you receive in your life.</p><p>In the past, I knew how to navigate the world, but I didn&#8217;t know how to inhabit my own body.</p><p>Today, I feel good in my own skin and I know how to care for my inner landscaping regardless of outside conditions. To finally say I feel good about myself, to claim it, and to feel that safety, goodness, and pleasure vibrate fully in my physical flesh? It is a quantum leap for me. A true success, if you ask me.</p><p>My Human Design blueprint started my true journey in awakening the amazing, alive Miha with all her raw, authentic, womanly desires. Not the polite, quiet, accommodating little girl everyone approved of.</p><p>This transformation was so profound that it drove me to get certified in Quantum Human Design. I didn&#8217;t do it just to add a title to my name and to be called a QHD Specialist. I did it because I want to share this knowledge to help people find themselves and, most importantly, to help them express their innocence.</p><p>Human Design was the field that changed everything for me. The quantum language didn&#8217;t just give me information; it gave me an energetic mirror that forced me to recognize exactly what was not expressing itself in a satisfying way. It gave me the chance to update my own inner system and to elevate on the spectrum of feeling good about myself. </p><h3>Elevating the Frequency of the Earth</h3><p>I want to share this knowledge with you because my mission has grown far bigger than just helping people find their types or profiles. This is about global consciousness.</p><p>The greatest tragedy of human conditioning is that it robs us of our innocence.</p><p>Our children are born as pure, unblemished expressions of the divine blueprint. They are innocent, radiant, and perfectly aligned with their design. But the world immediately begins to chip away at that innocence, telling them who they <em>should</em>-be to be loved.</p><p>My work in parenting, Human Desin, and Destination Method is about protecting and reclaiming that innocence.</p><p>When we do the hard, beautiful work of reparenting ourselves, when we look at the little child within and say, <em>&#8220;It is okay to let go of old beliefs, it is okay to transmute the pain into wisdom, and it is okay to love myself fully,&#8221;</em> something extraordinary happens. We stop projecting our wounds onto the next generation.</p><p>Imagine a generation of children raised by parents who have reclaimed their own energy. Children who do not have to heal from their childhoods. Children who are allowed to express their innocence completely, walking onto this earth <strong>fearless, in charge, and with pride.</strong></p><p>This is how we elevate the frequency of the Earth. When we raise children who are rooted in their authentic design, we introduce a wave of high consciousness into the world like never before. We alter the grid. We change the future.</p><h3>A New Step Forward</h3><p>I want to share with you a small success in building my brand and expanding my mission to elevate our collective consciousness, With the right help and clear intentions I now offer you all a tool to help your own journey.</p><p>I created a space where you can now run your very own Quantum Human Design Chart directly through my personal link here: </p><p><em><strong><a href="https://www.lovebymiha.com/quantum-human-design-chart"><span data-color="#9900ff" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 255);">Quantum HUman Design Chart</span></a></strong></em></p><p>Just click and follow the prompts.</p><p>Please know that your privacy is important to me and I am doing everything to keep is safe and guarded, I want you to know that I do not see your charts unless you choose to consciously share them with me, all your personal information is deleted  after your chart is generated. It is yours, and yours alone.</p><p>By offering this I open the quantum door for you!</p><p>You are invted to step into Miha&#8217;s world of coaching where down to earth m&#237;ricles happen when you at least expected. </p><h4><span data-color="#9900ff" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 255);">Click and </span><a href="https://www.lovebymiha.com/quantum-human-design-chart"><span data-color="#9900ff" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 255);">Map your energy.</span></a></h4><div><hr></div><p>I am so proud of this link, which takes you directly to my own landing page to generate your personal energetic blueprint. </p><p>I want you to know that the information provided is entirely accurate, given by Dr. Karen Curry Parker, who certified me as a Quantum Human Design Specialist. Not everything you find online about Human Design is accurate, so I gently suggest you double-check with a certified specialist on any information that feels unclear or even a bit "off" from what you read. Your body will sense it, you will know when that happens. Trust yourself and talk to a specialist. </p><p>I would love to hear from you and clarify your questions, but I respect your choice if you decide to work with someone else. </p><p>Please know that your privacy is deeply important to me, and I am doing everything to keep it safe and guarded. I do not see your charts unless you choose to consciously share them with me, and all your personal information is deleted after your chart is generated. It is yours, and yours alone.</p><p>Map your energy. Step out of the old scripts. Claim your sovereignty.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.lovebymiha.com/quantum-human-design-chart/&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get Your QHD Chart&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.lovebymiha.com/quantum-human-design-chart/"><span>Get Your QHD Chart</span></a></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="https://www.lovebymiha.com/quantum-human-design-chart/"><span data-color="#9900ff" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 255);">GET Your Quantum Human Design CHART </span></a></strong></p><p></p><p>By running your chart using my link, you will become part of the quantum family on my own platform where step by step, small success after small success, I am creating a safe space for all of us to dare to simply <em>be</em> as we were designed&#8230; &#8230;</p><p>&#8230;<em><strong>breathing effortlessly</strong></em>&#8230;</p><p>&#8230;<em><strong>flowing</strong></em> through life in <em><strong>presence</strong></em>, <em><strong>innocence</strong></em>, and <em><strong>happiness</strong></em>&#8230;</p><p>&#8230; for <em><strong>our hearts to feel as light as a feather</strong></em>&#8230; </p><div><hr></div><p> with big, warm, melting feelings,</p><h2><em>Mihaela</em></h2><h4><em>&#8230; the one who is learning to love summer, one puddle at a time&#8230;</em></h4><p><strong>Ps: I LOVE YOU.</strong></p><h1><strong>&#128171; &#128156; &#128171;</strong></h1><h4><em><strong>your QHD&amp;DMcoach</strong></em></h4><h1><em><strong>Makoto</strong></em></h1><p></p><div class="image-gallery-embed" data-attrs="{&quot;gallery&quot;:{&quot;images&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/141a7332-bb0e-4894-afe3-0ce9c74c50fd_4032x3024.jpeg&quot;}],&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;staticGalleryImage&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/141a7332-bb0e-4894-afe3-0ce9c74c50fd_4032x3024.jpeg&quot;}},&quot;isEditorNode&quot;:true}"></div><p><span data-color="#9900ff" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 255);">Picture byMiha</span> </p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#123 In the summer]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8230; I&#8217;ll be a puddle&#8230;]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/123-in-the-summer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/123-in-the-summer</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2026 22:06:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>In the summer, I&#8217;ll be a puddle.</strong></p><p><em>And honestly&#8230; I am looking forward to enjoy the stillness of being a creature who enjoys the present moment&#8230;</em></p><p>How about you? Any plans you get excited for? </p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/123-in-the-summer/comments&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Leave a comment&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/123-in-the-summer/comments"><span>Leave a comment</span></a></p><h3>Hi, love! </h3><h3>It&#8217;s graduation time.</h3><p>&#8230;that beautiful, bittersweet time of the year when we give awards for good behavior, high performance, and acknowledgments for trying to b&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#122 Re-parenting ]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8230; what love is?]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/122-re-parenting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/122-re-parenting</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2026 23:56:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!t6pE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd2213e30-99b2-4c19-a600-e76aa189a517_1521x863.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOVE,</p><p>May is here&#8230; and so you are in my heart.</p><p>The 5th month of the year feels like a celebration of speed, of life, and of the way time slips through our fingers like sand. It was Christmas just yesterday&#8230;</p><p>Today&#8230; </p><p>Happy Birthday to my niece, Larisa, the flower of my family.</p><p>She moves through life with such fast, bright energy, reminding me that life truly d&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#121 Parenting Re-Parenting]]></title><description><![CDATA[AI&#178; - tool created byMiha]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/121-parenting-re-parenting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/121-parenting-re-parenting</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 18:11:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/3f765d4b-1b8a-45bc-9e71-30d373b3e20d_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love,</p><p>April is here&#8230; and we stepped into it under the light of the full moon, the energy that doesn&#8217;t whisper, it reveals. There is nowhere to hide. </p><p>The full moon illuminates what we often keep in the background. This light gently, but clearly, asks us to look within&#8230; what is ready to be released? and what is quietly standing between us and our fulfillment, our alignment, our truth?</p><p>In quantum human design the full moon energy activates:</p><p><em>the Gate 48, Gate of Wisdom.</em></p><p>This gate holds a depth that doesn&#8217;t need to prove itself. Wisdom is a quiet, steady knowing that lives underneath the surface of who we think we are. It&#8217;s that knowledge that we feel in our lower, deepest part of our belly where the mortal body brings through information from the spiritual world.  </p><p>The energy of wisdom is a remembering.</p><p>The deep well of wisdom we carry we accumulate through lives, through lessons, through lived experiences, and through every moment we said yes to learning&#8230; even when it was uncomfortable, even when it asked something from us.</p><p>Gate 48 doesn&#8217;t ask us to become wise.<br>It asks us to acknowledge that we already are wise souls.</p><p>And yet&#8230; shadow is real, this is where the doubt hides.<br>The subtle voice that questions one&#8217;s own authority.<br>That whispers: not yet&#8230; not enough&#8230; not ready.</p><p>The full moon shines directly into that space. Not to fix it, but to free you from it.</p><p>Let&#8217;s be ready to shed the false narratives that we are not enough&#8230; and allow the quiet, but powerful return to the wisdom that has always lived within us.</p><p>When I release the fear of inadequacy, something softens&#8230; and something rises.</p><p>I become a wise guide, not because I know everything,<br>but because I have learned to trust what I know.</p><p>This is the optimal expression of Gate 48.</p><p>It feels like quiet confidence rooted in lived experience and inner knowing.<br>It moves as a willingness to share without over-explaining&#8230; to act without waiting for permission&#8230; to trust that timing is not late, not early&#8230; but divinely aligned.</p><p>I move with clarity, not because I have all the answers,<br>but because I trust the value of my perspective.</p><p><em><strong>And I know that my presence&#8230; as I am now&#8230; is enough.</strong></em></p><p>The deeper invitation of this full moon is a shift&#8230;<br>from <em>mind to body,</em><br>from <em>strategy to inner wisdom</em>,<br>from <em>fear&#8230; to faith</em>.</p><p>And maybe the real question is&#8230;<br><em>If I truly believed I am wise enough right now&#8230; how would I show up differently?</em></p><p>Affirmation for the gate 48: Wisdom </p><blockquote><p><em>I trust the wisdom I carry.<br>I am enough.<br>I know enough.<br>And I am ready now&#8230; to embody the fullness of my purpose.</em></p><p><em>-Dr. Karen Parker</em></p></blockquote><p></p><p>And this is exactly where I meet you in today&#8217;s newsletter. Because what I am about to share with you comes from that place. Miha&#8217;s creation tuned into the golden temple of wisdom. I came up with this tool not from theory read in books&#8230; not from something learned and repeated&#8230; but a combination&#8230; creation&#8230; from something that moved through me, something I got inspired by, something I created.</p><p><strong>A parenting / reparenting tool</strong> that revealed itself to me so clearly, I couldn&#8217;t not just keep it as a thought, an idea, or a nice inspiring moment. </p><p>I feel excited about this one.</p><p>It is my own creative work, and for now I am holding it with care. That&#8217;s why the full version of it I keep under paywall&#8230; I want to protect it to let it root, let it sprout&#8230; and maybe work on it a little longer. I feel part 2 might be in gestastion.</p><p>And at the same time&#8230; some of you already have access to it.</p><p>If you feel called to get behind the wall, you will know.</p><p>Because wisdom doesn&#8217;t need convincing.<br>It simply recognizes itself.</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Special edition ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Wisdom Awakening]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/special-edition</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/special-edition</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 05:04:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wisdom  Awakening </p><p>Love,</p><p></p><p>Tonight I must write before I go to sleep because a grand wisdom downloaded in me&#8230; straight from the golden temple of wisdom.</p><p></p><p>But it did not come easily.</p><p></p><p>This past Saturday I had a rough day.</p><p>The year had started well for me&#8230; but it is still winter until the spring equinox and some darkness felt too dark. </p><p>&#8230; on Saturday I woke up with&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#120 The frequency of Faith ]]></title><description><![CDATA[... green is sprouting with new energetic waves to be enjoyed]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/120-the-frequency-of-birthing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/120-the-frequency-of-birthing</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 07:11:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love,</p><p>I am pleasantly surprised, mesmerized by the synchronicities that keep appearing for me in different forms and in the most unexpected situations. The veil feels thinner now, and I find myself tuning into the invisible realm of higher guidance with a quiet, growing trust.</p><p>I am learning to trust it more deeply and to let my<strong> faith</strong> expand so wide, so fu&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wings ]]></title><description><![CDATA[WHO? Or WHAT?]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/wings</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/wings</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 15:07:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!mpsI!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F33e9511d-9a36-4611-81c5-19633bad68b4_1521x863.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello love,<br>&#65279;<br>I&#8217;ve been writing about Human Design, and you may have noticed the vocabulary I use is more&#8230; quantum. More alive. More embodied.</p><p>I am deeply satisfied with Substack.</p><p>I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOU BEING HERE. </p><p>We&#8217;re now over 300 subscribers, and that alone has been such a motivation to keep writing to keep you close and reading about life, children, sto&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#119 Moving forward ]]></title><description><![CDATA[new energies are swirling]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/119-moving-forward</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/119-moving-forward</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2026 04:08:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6Uag!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa33b95cc-e06b-4e3a-9e74-897eff1162cc_1280x726.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello love,</p><p>I am well and thinking of you.<br>The times we are living through are not easier or harder than other times we&#8217;ve heard about, yet something unprecedented is unfolding. <br>&#65279;<br>&#65279;Many of us feel it: the density, the swirling of duality, the way it quietly takes a toll on the body and nervous system.<br>&#65279;<br>This is why inner work feels more important than ever.<br><br>&#65279;&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#118 Parenting tool ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Inner Authority starts with I want]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/118-parenting-tool</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/118-parenting-tool</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:36:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><strong>Hello Love,</strong></h2><p>February is here with a beautiful, bright full moon, bringing so much light into my heart, light that illuminates my life.</p><p>I have shed and peeled off a lot of old, dried skin for a couple of years, just so I could see my natural glow again, the glow of innocence that was alway there.</p><p>I feel blessed to see clearly who and what I am. I am forever&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[EMERGE: Leading Through Broken Stone — Day 2, Pt. 4]]></title><description><![CDATA[A recording from Mihaela and Rosa Alicia Santoyo's live video]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/emerge-leading-through-broken-stone</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/emerge-leading-through-broken-stone</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2026 19:48:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/184804192/32cf1ec9290088feef720c6ea3a7bfb5.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="install-substack-app-embed install-substack-app-embed-web" data-component-name="InstallSubstackAppToDOM"><img class="install-substack-app-embed-img" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png"><div class="install-substack-app-embed-text"><div class="install-substack-app-header">Get more from Mihaela in the Substack app</div><div class="install-substack-app-text">Available for iOS and Android</div></div><a href="https://substack.com/app/app-store-redirect?utm_campaign=app-marketing&amp;utm_content=author-post-insert&amp;utm_source=bymiha" target="_blank" class="install-substack-app-embed-link"><button class="install-substack-app-embed-btn button primary">Get the app</button></a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#117 Happy New Year ✨🥂✨]]></title><description><![CDATA[... so much energy stirring through my body...]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/117-happy-new-year</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/117-happy-new-year</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2026 04:44:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230; can you feel it? </p><p>Is your body aching, bubbling, ready to release the new waves of energy that were waiting for a while to express through you?<br>Your new YOU?!</p><p>Every day you are a new self because you have been through so much, so many experiences, so many moments of creating a life you love living and a You feeling good about the Self.</p><p>Who is that Self?</p><p>I&#8217;&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thinking of you]]></title><description><![CDATA[on your birthday, dr Robert]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/thinking-of-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/thinking-of-you</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 08:12:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/youtube/w_728,c_limit/QHbajET0DaY" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I remember Robert on his birthday.<br>I&#8217;m sharing his new YouTube channel, </p><p>created with so much love by his wife, Dr. Luzette, to continue his legacy.</p><p>For now, there is just one song &#8212; yes, he was a singer too.<br>I was actually signed up for his singing class. I&#8217;m pretty sure I would have become a singer. </p><p>I feel blessed that he made me one of the top coac&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#114 Parenting by design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 7: Reflector/ Calibrator]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/114-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/114-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2025 20:01:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qhvr!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa389d2c5-aa63-433c-a3ab-7045c449519e_815x476.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>It&#8217;s October, my love!</p><p> &#8212; the air feels chilled, looks foggy, and super mysterious. They say the veil between worlds is thinner and begins to shimmer. Communication between dimensions is easier and messages more clear. </p><p>I find myself walking slower, observing more, and listening deeper. </p><p>The leaves are letting go with such grace, falling and decorating the ground. They are teaching me that endings can be beautiful too. I look back to my colorful memories, with all sorts of scents and flavors&#8230; and I simply enjoy this strong feeling of satisfaction that fills me when I look back &#8212; knowing I truly did the best I could with the choices I had, given the information I had, and with the understanding available to me at that time.</p><div><hr></div><p>OH!!! and Halloween approaches! I can&#8217;t help but feel the energetic charge that comes with costumes, masks, and imagination. It&#8217;s fun, yes &#8212; but also powerful.</p><p>I want to remind you that everything we wear, say, or pretend to be leaves an imprint in the subconscious mind. Pay attention to these stamps you mark your child&#8217;s minds with. They are real for our children; kids absorb these symbols as stories of who they might become. So when you choose their Halloween costume this year, pause for a moment. Ask yourself: <em>What energy am I inviting into their becoming?</em></p><p>Even in play, we are practicing creation &#8212; gestures, words, and symbols that become part of the infinite. Once the creative bubble floats into the quantum field, there is no way to undo it. It can&#8217;t be erased even if popped. It exists to be remembered&#8230; across time, across dimensions.</p><p>The mind doesn&#8217;t know the difference between what is real and what is imagined &#8212; it absorbs what it&#8217;s given and quietly molds it into tomorrow&#8217;s reality&#8230;</p><h3>Parenting by Design</h3><p>Our journey through the five Human Design Types brings us to our sweet, open, and so needed energetic support &#8212; the <strong>Calibrator</strong>, known in traditional Human Design as the <strong>Reflector</strong>.</p><h3>Today&#8217;s Spotlight: The Reflector/Calibrator</h3><p><br>They are the rarest of all Types, representing less than 1% of the population.</p><p>Reflectors/Calibrators are the mirrors of humanity &#8212; living reflections of the health and harmony of the world around them. They show us how our homes, families, and communities are doing, simply through their energy, emotions, and presence. In a play they have the role of the critics that give feedback on the performance we all are part of.  </p><p>If  a Reflector/Calibrator is joyful and radiant, it often means the environment around them is healthy. If they feel heavy, withdrawn, or sad, that&#8217;s not only their own story &#8212; it&#8217;s the story of the collective energy they&#8217;re reflecting. The environment around them needs to change or to be changed for the reflectors/calibrators to express their wellbeing. </p><p>They are here to remind us that we are all connected.</p><h2>What You Need to Know About Reflectors/Calibrators</h2>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#113 “Remember me”]]></title><description><![CDATA[dr. Robert always said...]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/remember-me</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/remember-me</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2025 14:07:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/893e9d47-f52d-4cc6-b226-308a5eca030f_194x259.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One month today since Robert&#8217;s passing&#8230;</p><p>I carry him in my heart more alive than ever. He was not just a teacher or a mentor &#8212; he was a true master of love and truth.</p><p>Robert gave me the greatest permission of all: to keep being who I always was &#8212; good.<br>Good enough. Good in my essence. Good in the way God made me.</p><p>That was his gift to me. </p><p>I want to pass on th&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#111 Parenting by Design]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 5: Time Bender]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/111-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/111-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2025 04:29:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/29b0ce6f-34b6-493f-9e66-13cf40b72654_785x960.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>It&#8217;s August!!!</strong></p><p><strong>The month for Liberation, Expansion, and Time-Bending Magic</strong></p><p>Reading the planetary news, like a junky astrologer that I am, I am excited and thrilled for August when  the cosmic appearance of Jupiter and Venus bring strong frequencies for change and transformation. These two planetary giants are the symbols for generosity, delight, and expansion. They say this rare alignment blesses us with double doses of joy and possibility. It&#8217;s a time when hearts open wider, visions stretch farther, and transformation feels not only possible but inevitable.</p><p>This is the energy of divine timing I so much have come to trust. This is a soul-level permission to grow, glow, and live a little bigger. </p><p>If July called us into personal freedom, August invites us to live it&#8212;to let the frequency of <em>delight</em> guide the next steps. These are not empty promises from the stars. They are invitations to embody the version of the one who says yes to joy. Who trusts timing. Who lets go of tight control and instead plays in the field of co-creation.</p><p>And what better way to honor this cosmic window than to continue to learn and  understand human design, the blueprint that gives us permission to be the true cosmic events that we are. We each are a star. We each play the roles of great characters in this dimension called life.  </p><p>By understanding the energy types humans have we can support the children to be more <em>accepted</em>, <em>supported</em>, and <em>loved </em>than any generations before. These divine beings, who are our children, deserve the respect and recognition of the true essence of who they really are: amazing humans.  </p><p>I trust the process of the transformational times we are living through. </p><p>Because of you, dear conscious parents, the old internal codes of the past are being rewritten. Together we are upgrading the blueprint for humans&#8212;so our children can create a future rooted in truth, and nothing but the truth. </p><p>There is no path to evolution that doesn&#8217;t begin with this ancient knowing: we are born free, we are born perfect. We are divine beings, born with free will. The potential to become anything we desire is not just a possibility&#8212;it is who we truly are. We came here to live fully and express our being through it all&#8212;the good and the bad, the light and the shadow, our gifts and our flaws. </p><p>With no fear and no shame express it all!!! </p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>All is good and all is God. </strong></p><p>-byMiha</p></div><p>In this newsletter series, we continue our journey through the five Quantum Human Design Types, not just to understand our kids better, but to become more attuned to ourselves, our partners, and the dynamics we live in. </p><p>We already know by now that in Quantum Human Design there are five energy Types, and that each person is born as one of them. The Type influences how we learn, how we move through the world, how our energy works, and even how our body restores itself&#8212;especially through sleep and rest.</p><p>Here&#8217;s a quick reminder of the five Types:</p><ul><li><p><strong>Manifestors / Initiators</strong> are trailblazers, here to translate Divine inspiration into action. Their gift is in initiating transformation. They thrive when they inform others before acting.</p></li><li><p><strong>Generators / Alchemists</strong> are the doers, the builders of the world. Their sustainable life-force energy is activated when they respond to what excites them.</p></li><li><p><strong>Manifesting Generators / Time Benders</strong> are the hybrid of both. Fast, magnetic, and efficient. When aligned, they bend time. Their challenge? Skipping steps too quickly.</p></li><li><p><strong>Projectors / Orchestrators</strong> are the wise guides. They see deeply into systems and people, and succeed through invitation and recognition.</p></li><li><p><strong>Reflectors / Calibrators</strong> are rare lunar beings who mirror the health of their environment. They thrive by honoring the cycles of the moon and moving at their own rhythm.</p></li></ul><p>Isn&#8217;t that incredible? You&#8212;and your children&#8212;were born with a distinct energetic blueprint. When we begin to understand and honor this design, we create environments where every child can thrive in their natural essence.</p><p>As parents, we carry both the responsibility and the <em>privilege</em> of empowering children to be free. Not to mold them into who we think they should be, but to allow them to be who they <em>already are</em>. That&#8217;s how we raise resilient, confident, self-aware human beings.</p><p>Quantum Human Design gives us a beautiful, evolving framework to parent more consciously, more kindly, and more attuned to what is real.</p><p>This isn't about perfect parenting. It's about present parenting. Respectful parenting. It's about allowing children to make mistakes, to learn through experience, and to fail better every time.</p><p>In our last letters, we explored the Initiators/Manifestors and the Alchemists/Generators&#8212;today we learn about a combination of both: Manifesting Generators, the Time Benders. </p><p><strong>If You Are Raising a Time Bender</strong></p><p><em><strong>You have a child who moves at the speed of lightning, skips steps with confidence, starts five things at once, and still somehow manages to cross the finish line ahead of everyone else&#8212;congratulations. You have a Time Bender in your home.</strong></em></p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#110 Parenting by Design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 4: the Initiator]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/110-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/110-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2025 22:47:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/e271ea57-3614-40e7-b68a-8e453ead8b48_819x574.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Hello July!</strong></p><p>The month we celebrate freedom on every level. July 4th reminds us that freedom is not something given to us by others but something we are born with, a birthright woven into our being. Freedom is meant to be lived&#8212;embodied in the body, initiated in the mind, aligned within the reciprocal system mind and body, resonating at the frequency of liberation. </p><p>We are expressions of the Divine, and our <strong>free will to become anything we desire </strong>is not only a possibility&#8212;<strong>it is who we truly are.</strong></p><div><hr></div><p>In this letter we continue to learn more about the designs humans have, so we can improve our relationships: with our child, partner, and first and foremost ourselves.</p><p>We already know about the five energy Types in Quantum Human Design. You know each person is born as a specific type.<br>Type influences how we learn.<br>Type teaches how your and your child's energy works.<br>Type is teaching a lot about what is needed to stay physically healthy, including how your child sleeps, and what kind of activities your child needs.</p><p>You remember there  are five energy Types in Quantum Human Design and that each person is born as a specific type. </p><p><strong>A short overview of the 5 Types:</strong></p><p><strong>Manifestors / Initiators</strong> are trailblazers, here to spark action and lead with bold impulses. They are here to translate Divine Inspiration into action. They initiate people into the frequency of transformation and creativity through direct access to the Quantum Pulse.<br>They thrive when they inform others before acting, creating more peace and less resistance.</p><p><strong>Generators / Alchemists</strong> are the sustainable life force of the world. The doers. We transform inspiration into form. We physically manifest creativity and express through devotion. When we respond to what lights us up, we experience deep satisfaction and inspire others.</p><p><strong>Manifesting Generators / Time Benders</strong> are energetic multitaskers who can respond and initiate&#8212;bending time when aligned&#8212;but needing to remember not to skip steps. They are a hybrid between the first two types, they are sparking action and they do it too, turning the inspiration they get into form. They speed up the quantum process and linear time.</p><p><strong>Projectors / Orchestrators</strong> are the wise guides.<br>Their gift is to see deeply into others, and their success comes through waiting for recognition and invitation. They anchor the energetic template of what we are here to create, they are here to align the energy and the world and heal.</p><p><strong>Reflectors / Calibrators</strong> are the rare lunar beings who reflect the health of their environment. They are to be the barometer of the alignment of humanity. with Heart. They mirror to others the human condition and human potential.<br>Their wisdom emerges when they honor time&#8212;especially the 28-day lunar cycle&#8212;for decision-making.</p><p>Doesn&#8217;t sound amazing?</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Invitation ]]></title><description><![CDATA[to a different matrix]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/invitation-d70</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/invitation-d70</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 14:07:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/d45bcddb-0dfe-4057-8b8b-0f6141863dbe_1080x1350.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love,</p><p>I want you part of my new adventures, but I can&#8217;t just add you to a list without your permission.</p><p>I want to keep Substack strictly for parenting letters, free of &#8220;personal&#8221; ads and sales. But this is your chance to get <strong>more of me, in ways you can&#8217;t even imagine I&#8217;m capable of.</strong></p><p>How surprised will you be when I take parenting to another level of respon&#8230;</p>
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