<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[byMiha’s Newsletter]]></title><description><![CDATA[Parenting Reparenting Life Quantum Human Design DMCoaching]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png</url><title>byMiha’s Newsletter</title><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 22:44:05 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Mihaela Carmen Matei ]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[LovebyMiha@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[#122 Re-parenting ]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#8230; what love is?]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/122-re-parenting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/122-re-parenting</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2026 23:56:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!t6pE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd2213e30-99b2-4c19-a600-e76aa189a517_1521x863.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOVE,</p><p>May is here&#8230; and so you are in my heart.</p><p>The 5th month of the year feels like a celebration of speed, of life, and of the way time slips through our fingers like sand. It was Christmas just yesterday&#8230;</p><p>Today&#8230; </p><p>Happy Birthday to my niece, Larisa, the flower of my family.</p><p>She moves through life with such fast, bright energy, reminding me that life truly d&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#121 Parenting Re-Parenting]]></title><description><![CDATA[AI&#178; - tool created byMiha]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/121-parenting-re-parenting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/121-parenting-re-parenting</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 18:11:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/3f765d4b-1b8a-45bc-9e71-30d373b3e20d_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love,</p><p>April is here&#8230; and we stepped into it under the light of the full moon, the energy that doesn&#8217;t whisper, it reveals. There is nowhere to hide. </p><p>The full moon illuminates what we often keep in the background. This light gently, but clearly, asks us to look within&#8230; what is ready to be released? and what is quietly standing between us and our fulfillment, our alignment, our truth?</p><p>In quantum human design the full moon energy activates:</p><p><em>the Gate 48, Gate of Wisdom.</em></p><p>This gate holds a depth that doesn&#8217;t need to prove itself. Wisdom is a quiet, steady knowing that lives underneath the surface of who we think we are. It&#8217;s that knowledge that we feel in our lower, deepest part of our belly where the mortal body brings through information from the spiritual world.  </p><p>The energy of wisdom is a remembering.</p><p>The deep well of wisdom we carry we accumulate through lives, through lessons, through lived experiences, and through every moment we said yes to learning&#8230; even when it was uncomfortable, even when it asked something from us.</p><p>Gate 48 doesn&#8217;t ask us to become wise.<br>It asks us to acknowledge that we already are wise souls.</p><p>And yet&#8230; shadow is real, this is where the doubt hides.<br>The subtle voice that questions one&#8217;s own authority.<br>That whispers: not yet&#8230; not enough&#8230; not ready.</p><p>The full moon shines directly into that space. Not to fix it, but to free you from it.</p><p>Let&#8217;s be ready to shed the false narratives that we are not enough&#8230; and allow the quiet, but powerful return to the wisdom that has always lived within us.</p><p>When I release the fear of inadequacy, something softens&#8230; and something rises.</p><p>I become a wise guide, not because I know everything,<br>but because I have learned to trust what I know.</p><p>This is the optimal expression of Gate 48.</p><p>It feels like quiet confidence rooted in lived experience and inner knowing.<br>It moves as a willingness to share without over-explaining&#8230; to act without waiting for permission&#8230; to trust that timing is not late, not early&#8230; but divinely aligned.</p><p>I move with clarity, not because I have all the answers,<br>but because I trust the value of my perspective.</p><p><em><strong>And I know that my presence&#8230; as I am now&#8230; is enough.</strong></em></p><p>The deeper invitation of this full moon is a shift&#8230;<br>from <em>mind to body,</em><br>from <em>strategy to inner wisdom</em>,<br>from <em>fear&#8230; to faith</em>.</p><p>And maybe the real question is&#8230;<br><em>If I truly believed I am wise enough right now&#8230; how would I show up differently?</em></p><p>Affirmation for the gate 48: Wisdom </p><blockquote><p><em>I trust the wisdom I carry.<br>I am enough.<br>I know enough.<br>And I am ready now&#8230; to embody the fullness of my purpose.</em></p><p><em>-Dr. Karen Parker</em></p></blockquote><p></p><p>And this is exactly where I meet you in today&#8217;s newsletter. Because what I am about to share with you comes from that place. Miha&#8217;s creation tuned into the golden temple of wisdom. I came up with this tool not from theory read in books&#8230; not from something learned and repeated&#8230; but a combination&#8230; creation&#8230; from something that moved through me, something I got inspired by, something I created.</p><p><strong>A parenting / reparenting tool</strong> that revealed itself to me so clearly, I couldn&#8217;t not just keep it as a thought, an idea, or a nice inspiring moment. </p><p>I feel excited about this one.</p><p>It is my own creative work, and for now I am holding it with care. That&#8217;s why the full version of it I keep under paywall&#8230; I want to protect it to let it root, let it sprout&#8230; and maybe work on it a little longer. I feel part 2 might be in gestastion.</p><p>And at the same time&#8230; some of you already have access to it.</p><p>If you feel called to get behind the wall, you will know.</p><p>Because wisdom doesn&#8217;t need convincing.<br>It simply recognizes itself.</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Special edition ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Wisdom Awakening]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/special-edition</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/special-edition</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 05:04:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wisdom  Awakening </p><p>Love,</p><p></p><p>Tonight I must write before I go to sleep because a grand wisdom downloaded in me&#8230; straight from the golden temple of wisdom.</p><p></p><p>But it did not come easily.</p><p></p><p>This past Saturday I had a rough day.</p><p>The year had started well for me&#8230; but it is still winter until the spring equinox and some darkness felt too dark. </p><p>&#8230; on Saturday I woke up with&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#120 The frequency of Faith ]]></title><description><![CDATA[... green is sprouting with new energetic waves to be enjoyed]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/120-the-frequency-of-birthing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/120-the-frequency-of-birthing</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 07:11:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love,</p><p>I am pleasantly surprised, mesmerized by the synchronicities that keep appearing for me in different forms and in the most unexpected situations. The veil feels thinner now, and I find myself tuning into the invisible realm of higher guidance with a quiet, growing trust.</p><p>I am learning to trust it more deeply and to let my<strong> faith</strong> expand so wide, so fu&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wings ]]></title><description><![CDATA[WHO? Or WHAT?]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/wings</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/wings</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2026 15:07:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!mpsI!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F33e9511d-9a36-4611-81c5-19633bad68b4_1521x863.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello love,<br>&#65279;<br>I&#8217;ve been writing about Human Design, and you may have noticed the vocabulary I use is more&#8230; quantum. More alive. More embodied.</p><p>I am deeply satisfied with Substack.</p><p>I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOU BEING HERE. </p><p>We&#8217;re now over 300 subscribers, and that alone has been such a motivation to keep writing to keep you close and reading about life, children, sto&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#119 Moving forward ]]></title><description><![CDATA[new energies are swirling]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/119-moving-forward</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/119-moving-forward</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2026 04:08:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6Uag!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa33b95cc-e06b-4e3a-9e74-897eff1162cc_1280x726.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello love,</p><p>I am well and thinking of you.<br>The times we are living through are not easier or harder than other times we&#8217;ve heard about, yet something unprecedented is unfolding. <br>&#65279;<br>&#65279;Many of us feel it: the density, the swirling of duality, the way it quietly takes a toll on the body and nervous system.<br>&#65279;<br>This is why inner work feels more important than ever.<br><br>&#65279;&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#118 Parenting tool ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Inner Authority starts with I want]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/118-parenting-tool</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/118-parenting-tool</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:36:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><strong>Hello Love,</strong></h2><p>February is here with a beautiful, bright full moon, bringing so much light into my heart, light that illuminates my life.</p><p>I have shed and peeled off a lot of old, dried skin for a couple of years, just so I could see my natural glow again, the glow of innocence that was alway there.</p><p>I feel blessed to see clearly who and what I am. I am forever&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[EMERGE: Leading Through Broken Stone — Day 2, Pt. 4]]></title><description><![CDATA[A recording from Mihaela and Rosa Alicia Santoyo's live video]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/emerge-leading-through-broken-stone</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/emerge-leading-through-broken-stone</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2026 19:48:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/184804192/32cf1ec9290088feef720c6ea3a7bfb5.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="install-substack-app-embed install-substack-app-embed-web" data-component-name="InstallSubstackAppToDOM"><img class="install-substack-app-embed-img" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png"><div class="install-substack-app-embed-text"><div class="install-substack-app-header">Get more from Mihaela in the Substack app</div><div class="install-substack-app-text">Available for iOS and Android</div></div><a href="https://substack.com/app/app-store-redirect?utm_campaign=app-marketing&amp;utm_content=author-post-insert&amp;utm_source=bymiha" target="_blank" class="install-substack-app-embed-link"><button class="install-substack-app-embed-btn button primary">Get the app</button></a></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#117 Happy New Year ✨🥂✨]]></title><description><![CDATA[... so much energy stirring through my body...]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/117-happy-new-year</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/117-happy-new-year</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2026 04:44:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!hXD0!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7470e7b8-a025-498b-9bf9-86e51e918a0e_500x500.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230; can you feel it? </p><p>Is your body aching, bubbling, ready to release the new waves of energy that were waiting for a while to express through you?<br>Your new YOU?!</p><p>Every day you are a new self because you have been through so much, so many experiences, so many moments of creating a life you love living and a You feeling good about the Self.</p><p>Who is that Self?</p><p>I&#8217;&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#116 🥂 Cheers 🥂 ]]></title><description><![CDATA[... wrapping up and moving on...]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/116-cheers</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/116-cheers</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2025 05:33:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/13c88e83-8d75-4502-9cdd-3240271b3a04_3024x4032.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People&#8230; it&#8217;s the end of the year!!!</p><p>&#8230; again &#8230;<br>What!? </p><p>&#8230; honestly, I&#8217;m still trying to understand how we got here so fast, especially when summer keeps showing up where my little piece of heaven is. My dream to live in a ever summer country it&#8217; mine to live. I am blessed. </p><p>December has this gentle way to remind me what is important in life. How everything is&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thinking of you]]></title><description><![CDATA[on your birthday, dr Robert]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/thinking-of-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/thinking-of-you</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 08:12:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/youtube/w_728,c_limit/QHbajET0DaY" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I remember Robert on his birthday.<br>I&#8217;m sharing his new YouTube channel, </p><p>created with so much love by his wife, Dr. Luzette, to continue his legacy.</p><p>For now, there is just one song &#8212; yes, he was a singer too.<br>I was actually signed up for his singing class. I&#8217;m pretty sure I would have become a singer. </p><p>I feel blessed that he made me one of the top coac&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#115 the way of Makoto]]></title><description><![CDATA[truth, sincerity, and integrity]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/115-the-way-of-makoto</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/115-the-way-of-makoto</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2025 23:05:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!m2ue!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff37c1720-abc0-4385-b6f3-15d2b342b4cb_972x683.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><strong>Love</strong></em>,</h1><p>Another fun season is unfolding for us&#8230;</p><p>As we wrap up another amazing year &#8212; what an adventure, right?</p><p>I want to bring awareness to our <strong>quantum journey together</strong> in the field of Human Design. Together, we&#8217;ve experienced the <strong>Quantum Frequencies</strong> that, I assure you, have brushed your mind and left subtle imprints &#8212; spreading through your subconscious lik&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#114 Parenting by design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 7: Reflector/ Calibrator]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/114-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/114-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2025 20:01:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qhvr!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa389d2c5-aa63-433c-a3ab-7045c449519e_815x476.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>It&#8217;s October, my love!</p><p> &#8212; the air feels chilled, looks foggy, and super mysterious. They say the veil between worlds is thinner and begins to shimmer. Communication between dimensions is easier and messages more clear. </p><p>I find myself walking slower, observing more, and listening deeper. </p><p>The leaves are letting go with such grace, falling and decorating the ground. They are teaching me that endings can be beautiful too. I look back to my colorful memories, with all sorts of scents and flavors&#8230; and I simply enjoy this strong feeling of satisfaction that fills me when I look back &#8212; knowing I truly did the best I could with the choices I had, given the information I had, and with the understanding available to me at that time.</p><div><hr></div><p>OH!!! and Halloween approaches! I can&#8217;t help but feel the energetic charge that comes with costumes, masks, and imagination. It&#8217;s fun, yes &#8212; but also powerful.</p><p>I want to remind you that everything we wear, say, or pretend to be leaves an imprint in the subconscious mind. Pay attention to these stamps you mark your child&#8217;s minds with. They are real for our children; kids absorb these symbols as stories of who they might become. So when you choose their Halloween costume this year, pause for a moment. Ask yourself: <em>What energy am I inviting into their becoming?</em></p><p>Even in play, we are practicing creation &#8212; gestures, words, and symbols that become part of the infinite. Once the creative bubble floats into the quantum field, there is no way to undo it. It can&#8217;t be erased even if popped. It exists to be remembered&#8230; across time, across dimensions.</p><p>The mind doesn&#8217;t know the difference between what is real and what is imagined &#8212; it absorbs what it&#8217;s given and quietly molds it into tomorrow&#8217;s reality&#8230;</p><h3>Parenting by Design</h3><p>Our journey through the five Human Design Types brings us to our sweet, open, and so needed energetic support &#8212; the <strong>Calibrator</strong>, known in traditional Human Design as the <strong>Reflector</strong>.</p><h3>Today&#8217;s Spotlight: The Reflector/Calibrator</h3><p><br>They are the rarest of all Types, representing less than 1% of the population.</p><p>Reflectors/Calibrators are the mirrors of humanity &#8212; living reflections of the health and harmony of the world around them. They show us how our homes, families, and communities are doing, simply through their energy, emotions, and presence. In a play they have the role of the critics that give feedback on the performance we all are part of.  </p><p>If  a Reflector/Calibrator is joyful and radiant, it often means the environment around them is healthy. If they feel heavy, withdrawn, or sad, that&#8217;s not only their own story &#8212; it&#8217;s the story of the collective energy they&#8217;re reflecting. The environment around them needs to change or to be changed for the reflectors/calibrators to express their wellbeing. </p><p>They are here to remind us that we are all connected.</p><h2>What You Need to Know About Reflectors/Calibrators</h2>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#113 “Remember me”]]></title><description><![CDATA[dr. Robert always said...]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/remember-me</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/remember-me</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2025 14:07:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/893e9d47-f52d-4cc6-b226-308a5eca030f_194x259.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One month today since Robert&#8217;s passing&#8230;</p><p>I carry him in my heart more alive than ever. He was not just a teacher or a mentor &#8212; he was a true master of love and truth.</p><p>Robert gave me the greatest permission of all: to keep being who I always was &#8212; good.<br>Good enough. Good in my essence. Good in the way God made me.</p><p>That was his gift to me. </p><p>I want to pass on th&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#112 Parenting by Design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 4: Projector/Orchestrator]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/112-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/112-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2025 14:07:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!sx7C!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb869b705-7eca-49ca-9248-0223db4d5693_819x497.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s September, my love!!!</p><p>&#8230;the energies feel strong all around us. The full moon shines brighter, eclipse season is stirring the skies, and the Fall Equinox is subtly asking for balance into our lives. I can feel it &#8212; so intensely that I had to cry into my pillow for a little.</p><p>So much has happened this summer, and so much continues to unfold as we move into fall. The good and the bad together give me the intensity of a life well lived.   I feel gratitude for it all, all the way into my bones. Thanks to my travels, my choices, the people in my life (including the ones I never met, but felt), my continuing education, and my conscious evolution, I now stand tall in who I truly am &#8212; and I stand up for who I am becoming.</p><p>I ride the tides of change. I answer the call to shed what no longer serves, to let go of the weight of the past, to forgive myself, and to prepare for the white stillness of winter, to accept and love what is. </p><p>Fall always feels like purification to me&#8230; flowers and leaves wither into dryness, becoming fertilizer for the seeds I have gathered from the richness of the fruits I have devoured. Winter then becomes my sacred pause, a time to tuck those seeds into the dark soil, letting them rest, germinate, and gather strength for the spring to come. Looking forward for the bloom to share beauty in life. </p><p>It is change, yes &#8212; but it is also promise.</p><p>I brag about it with the intention to inspire you &#8212; to listen to your inner knowing and follow your truth. Your surfboard is yours, and only yours, to ride the waves of life through all the seasons we are blessed to experience. </p><h3>Today&#8217;s Spotlight: The Orchestrator (Projector)</h3><p>Back to my series <em>Parenting by Design</em> &#8212; today I bring awareness to the beautiful human energy of Projectors (traditional human design) / Orchestrators (quantum human design), and the way they influence the world. Like all Types, they carry a special blueprint. Yet the Orchestrator stands apart: more open, more influenced by others, and at the same time deeply influencing those around them. Their design is less about doing and more about guiding, seeing, and holding the flow of energy in ways that serve us all.</p><p><strong>Projectors/Orchestrators </strong>make up about 20% of the population, and yet they are so often misunderstood. When we learn how to support our Orchestrator children, we give them the gift of growing into the empowered, fulfilled role they are designed to play. The Projector/Orchestrator is often called &#8220;the one who knows.&#8221; They have a natural gift for seeing people, systems, and situations &#8212; and sensing the best way forward. Their role is not to do the work themselves, but to guide others into their highest potential. All this by invitation only, not forcing. By only being they attract the right opportunities they will be invited to. </p><p>A gentle reminder: the series of this quantum program, including most of my notes are not shared publicly, but only with my most cherished supporters. When you feel ready to contribute and show me more love, consider upgrading to the next level of subscriber and enjoy the special byMiha offerings created with gratitude and care &#8212; a gift of deeper connection and inspiration just for you, so you know more of me, including private sessions to know more of you. </p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#111 Parenting by Design]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 5: Time Bender]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/111-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/111-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2025 04:29:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/29b0ce6f-34b6-493f-9e66-13cf40b72654_785x960.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>It&#8217;s August!!!</strong></p><p><strong>The month for Liberation, Expansion, and Time-Bending Magic</strong></p><p>Reading the planetary news, like a junky astrologer that I am, I am excited and thrilled for August when  the cosmic appearance of Jupiter and Venus bring strong frequencies for change and transformation. These two planetary giants are the symbols for generosity, delight, and expansion. They say this rare alignment blesses us with double doses of joy and possibility. It&#8217;s a time when hearts open wider, visions stretch farther, and transformation feels not only possible but inevitable.</p><p>This is the energy of divine timing I so much have come to trust. This is a soul-level permission to grow, glow, and live a little bigger. </p><p>If July called us into personal freedom, August invites us to live it&#8212;to let the frequency of <em>delight</em> guide the next steps. These are not empty promises from the stars. They are invitations to embody the version of the one who says yes to joy. Who trusts timing. Who lets go of tight control and instead plays in the field of co-creation.</p><p>And what better way to honor this cosmic window than to continue to learn and  understand human design, the blueprint that gives us permission to be the true cosmic events that we are. We each are a star. We each play the roles of great characters in this dimension called life.  </p><p>By understanding the energy types humans have we can support the children to be more <em>accepted</em>, <em>supported</em>, and <em>loved </em>than any generations before. These divine beings, who are our children, deserve the respect and recognition of the true essence of who they really are: amazing humans.  </p><p>I trust the process of the transformational times we are living through. </p><p>Because of you, dear conscious parents, the old internal codes of the past are being rewritten. Together we are upgrading the blueprint for humans&#8212;so our children can create a future rooted in truth, and nothing but the truth. </p><p>There is no path to evolution that doesn&#8217;t begin with this ancient knowing: we are born free, we are born perfect. We are divine beings, born with free will. The potential to become anything we desire is not just a possibility&#8212;it is who we truly are. We came here to live fully and express our being through it all&#8212;the good and the bad, the light and the shadow, our gifts and our flaws. </p><p>With no fear and no shame express it all!!! </p><div class="pullquote"><p><strong>All is good and all is God. </strong></p><p>-byMiha</p></div><p>In this newsletter series, we continue our journey through the five Quantum Human Design Types, not just to understand our kids better, but to become more attuned to ourselves, our partners, and the dynamics we live in. </p><p>We already know by now that in Quantum Human Design there are five energy Types, and that each person is born as one of them. The Type influences how we learn, how we move through the world, how our energy works, and even how our body restores itself&#8212;especially through sleep and rest.</p><p>Here&#8217;s a quick reminder of the five Types:</p><ul><li><p><strong>Manifestors / Initiators</strong> are trailblazers, here to translate Divine inspiration into action. Their gift is in initiating transformation. They thrive when they inform others before acting.</p></li><li><p><strong>Generators / Alchemists</strong> are the doers, the builders of the world. Their sustainable life-force energy is activated when they respond to what excites them.</p></li><li><p><strong>Manifesting Generators / Time Benders</strong> are the hybrid of both. Fast, magnetic, and efficient. When aligned, they bend time. Their challenge? Skipping steps too quickly.</p></li><li><p><strong>Projectors / Orchestrators</strong> are the wise guides. They see deeply into systems and people, and succeed through invitation and recognition.</p></li><li><p><strong>Reflectors / Calibrators</strong> are rare lunar beings who mirror the health of their environment. They thrive by honoring the cycles of the moon and moving at their own rhythm.</p></li></ul><p>Isn&#8217;t that incredible? You&#8212;and your children&#8212;were born with a distinct energetic blueprint. When we begin to understand and honor this design, we create environments where every child can thrive in their natural essence.</p><p>As parents, we carry both the responsibility and the <em>privilege</em> of empowering children to be free. Not to mold them into who we think they should be, but to allow them to be who they <em>already are</em>. That&#8217;s how we raise resilient, confident, self-aware human beings.</p><p>Quantum Human Design gives us a beautiful, evolving framework to parent more consciously, more kindly, and more attuned to what is real.</p><p>This isn't about perfect parenting. It's about present parenting. Respectful parenting. It's about allowing children to make mistakes, to learn through experience, and to fail better every time.</p><p>In our last letters, we explored the Initiators/Manifestors and the Alchemists/Generators&#8212;today we learn about a combination of both: Manifesting Generators, the Time Benders. </p><p><strong>If You Are Raising a Time Bender</strong></p><p><em><strong>You have a child who moves at the speed of lightning, skips steps with confidence, starts five things at once, and still somehow manages to cross the finish line ahead of everyone else&#8212;congratulations. You have a Time Bender in your home.</strong></em></p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#110 Parenting by Design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 4: the Initiator]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/110-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/110-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2025 22:47:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/e271ea57-3614-40e7-b68a-8e453ead8b48_819x574.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Hello July!</strong></p><p>The month we celebrate freedom on every level. July 4th reminds us that freedom is not something given to us by others but something we are born with, a birthright woven into our being. Freedom is meant to be lived&#8212;embodied in the body, initiated in the mind, aligned within the reciprocal system mind and body, resonating at the frequency of liberation. </p><p>We are expressions of the Divine, and our <strong>free will to become anything we desire </strong>is not only a possibility&#8212;<strong>it is who we truly are.</strong></p><div><hr></div><p>In this letter we continue to learn more about the designs humans have, so we can improve our relationships: with our child, partner, and first and foremost ourselves.</p><p>We already know about the five energy Types in Quantum Human Design. You know each person is born as a specific type.<br>Type influences how we learn.<br>Type teaches how your and your child's energy works.<br>Type is teaching a lot about what is needed to stay physically healthy, including how your child sleeps, and what kind of activities your child needs.</p><p>You remember there  are five energy Types in Quantum Human Design and that each person is born as a specific type. </p><p><strong>A short overview of the 5 Types:</strong></p><p><strong>Manifestors / Initiators</strong> are trailblazers, here to spark action and lead with bold impulses. They are here to translate Divine Inspiration into action. They initiate people into the frequency of transformation and creativity through direct access to the Quantum Pulse.<br>They thrive when they inform others before acting, creating more peace and less resistance.</p><p><strong>Generators / Alchemists</strong> are the sustainable life force of the world. The doers. We transform inspiration into form. We physically manifest creativity and express through devotion. When we respond to what lights us up, we experience deep satisfaction and inspire others.</p><p><strong>Manifesting Generators / Time Benders</strong> are energetic multitaskers who can respond and initiate&#8212;bending time when aligned&#8212;but needing to remember not to skip steps. They are a hybrid between the first two types, they are sparking action and they do it too, turning the inspiration they get into form. They speed up the quantum process and linear time.</p><p><strong>Projectors / Orchestrators</strong> are the wise guides.<br>Their gift is to see deeply into others, and their success comes through waiting for recognition and invitation. They anchor the energetic template of what we are here to create, they are here to align the energy and the world and heal.</p><p><strong>Reflectors / Calibrators</strong> are the rare lunar beings who reflect the health of their environment. They are to be the barometer of the alignment of humanity. with Heart. They mirror to others the human condition and human potential.<br>Their wisdom emerges when they honor time&#8212;especially the 28-day lunar cycle&#8212;for decision-making.</p><p>Doesn&#8217;t sound amazing?</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Invitation ]]></title><description><![CDATA[to a different matrix]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/invitation-d70</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/invitation-d70</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2025 14:07:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/d45bcddb-0dfe-4057-8b8b-0f6141863dbe_1080x1350.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love,</p><p>I want you part of my new adventures, but I can&#8217;t just add you to a list without your permission.</p><p>I want to keep Substack strictly for parenting letters, free of &#8220;personal&#8221; ads and sales. But this is your chance to get <strong>more of me, in ways you can&#8217;t even imagine I&#8217;m capable of.</strong></p><p>How surprised will you be when I take parenting to another level of respon&#8230;</p>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#109 Parenting by Design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 3: Generator/Alchemist]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/109-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/109-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2025 19:32:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/20b1cd2f-a45e-43dc-9c0f-abb556b5d0a8_819x574.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations for graduation season! </p><p>For all the school graduates and for us who are watching and bringing flowers.<br>I know, I know&#8230; maybe we&#8217;re not walking across a fancy stage in a cap and gown. Maybe no one&#8217;s handing us a Harvard diploma. But don&#8217;t tell me you&#8217;re not graduating from something. Every soul I meet is celebrating a quiet, invisible victory&#8212;some big inner shift that no one claps for.<br>And I believe those are the most sacred.</p><p>So&#8230; <strong>cheers to your inner graduation. To becoming more YOU.</strong><br>To becoming the conscious parent you wish you had. </p><p>You have my admiration and support.</p><p>It&#8217;s June.<br>The greenest, juiciest, most alive month of the year. Nature is blooming. The trees are shouting, &#8220;Look at me, I&#8217;m alive!&#8221; &#8230; and that&#8217;s what I do! I imagine I am a tree. If you were to be something green this season, what would you be? </p><p>So while you&#8217;re enjoying the wild beauty of this season, I invite you to sit with me for a moment. Because this letter isn&#8217;t just about Human Design&#8212;it&#8217;s about <strong>you</strong>, your child, and all dear ones in your life.</p><p>In this lesson we learn a little more about the designs humans have, so you can improve your relationships: with your child, your partner, and first and foremost yourself.</p><p>You already know about the five energy Types in Quantum Human Design. You know each person is born as a specific type.<br>Type influences how you learn.<br>Type contains a specific purpose that you can support yourself and your child in fulfilling.<br>Type teaches you a lot about how your and your child's energy works.<br>Type is teaching a lot about what your and your child&#8217;s needs are just to stay physically healthy, including how your child sleeps, and what kind of activities your child needs.</p><p>Each Type has a unique role, a unique way of making decisions, and a unique way of staying rooted in their resiliency. </p><p>So as we go through this exploration of the five Quantum Human Design types, I want you to think about this in the context of your child's Type, but also in the context of your own Type, and your co-parent&#8217;s Type as well. Understanding the core themes for each Type supports us in being able to meet children's needs, see them for who they are&#8212;and not just your child, but also to honor, respect, and cultivate a more supportive relationship with yourself, with everyone in your life. Regardless of the energetic type differences. </p><h3>Today&#8217;s Spotlight: The Alchemist</h3>
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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[#108 Parenting by Design ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lesson 2]]></description><link>https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/108-parenting-by-design</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://mihaela.lovebymiha.com/p/108-parenting-by-design</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mihaela]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2025 16:09:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/f1be2439-538f-46b6-bb98-a69beb12ab28_819x574.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Love,</strong></p><p>This May it is the first time I&#8217;ve skipped posting on the first Sunday of the month since I started my Substack publication.</p><p><em>Wow. How loyal I am.</em></p><p>I missed sending out the letter for a good reason&#8212;many reasons. Not that I want to explain myself, but I feel I ought to share with you something about my conscious evolution.</p><p>Few of you read my &#8220;wisdom hour&#8221; in my private notes, and you somehow follow my inspiration sparked by my studies about the mind. So you know&#8230; I am bubbling within.</p><p>This month, I stepped away from my usual coaching presence and participated in a program for my continuing education with my TDM family.</p><p><strong>We were taken deep into the mysteries of the mind&#8212;and it was intense.</strong><br>Honestly, at times I felt like it was not for me to understand it all. It was hard to get it at first. But I&#8217;m deeply proud of the inner expansion I felt in class. I grasped some truths I was a little scared to consider.<br>I&#8217;m impressed I stretched my mind and made room for bigger and deeper ideas about who I am, what this world is, and why all of <em>IT</em>.</p><p>I thank <em>You</em> for reading my work.<br>For witnessing my evolution.<br>And for growing with me.</p><p>I give a round of applause to us all, and I continue with the series:</p><h3>Parenting by Design</h3><p><strong>Lesson Two &#8211; Understanding Your Child&#8217;s Human Design Type</strong></p><p>At the heart of this series is a simple yet powerful intention:<br>To give you a better way of seeing your child&#8212;their needs, their gifts, and their path to becoming a resilient, aligned, and thriving adult.</p><p>This is Lesson Two, and we&#8217;re about to step into one of the most eye-opening parts of this journey together.<br>We begin exploring <strong>Quantum Human Design (QHD)</strong>, starting with one of its core foundations: <strong>Types</strong>.</p><p>If you learn anything about QHD, you should know the five energetic Types.</p><p>Every person is born with a specific Type.<br>It&#8217;s like having an energetic blueprint that guides how we learn, how we make decisions, how we rest, and how we access our power.</p><p>Understanding your child&#8217;s Type helps you answer essential parenting questions:</p><ul><li><p>How does my child process energy and emotions?</p></li><li><p>What kind of environment do they need to feel safe and well?</p></li><li><p>How do they make decisions that align with their truth?</p></li></ul><p>Quantum Human Design (QHD) identifies five distinct energy Types, each offering a unique lens through which individuals interact with the world. These Types&#8212;Manifestor<strong> (Initiator)</strong>, Generator<strong> (Alchemist)</strong>, Manifesting Generator <strong>(Time Bender)</strong>, Projector<strong> (Orchestrator)</strong>, and Reflector<strong> (Calibrator)</strong>&#8212;serve as foundational archetypes that illuminate how we process energy, make decisions, and engage with our environment. </p>
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